When “Try Harder” Isn’t Helping Your Teen Start Homework
When schoolwork stalls, motivation is often blamed. But caring about a grade does not automatically create a starting point, a plan, or enough working-memory support to carry the task.
When schoolwork stalls, motivation is often blamed. But caring about a grade does not automatically create a starting point, a plan, or enough working-memory support to carry the task.
The academic content is only one layer of schoolwork. Around it sits an additional assignment: finding, planning, organizing, monitoring, and submitting the work.
Games and schoolwork rely on many of the same executive-function skills. The difference is that games often provide more of the structure a brain needs, while schoolwork frequently asks the student to create that structure independently.
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